It really sucks, but I think it happens in every religion. The catholic church is like the Dallas Cowboys. Shit happens on all teams, but everyone targets the Cowboys. Oh well. Pick your own religion and watch your kids like a hawk, and be open and honest with them. Make sure they can talk to you and hopefully they'll grow up to be dorky scooterists! I don't have kids so I'm probably talking out my ass. I just know my parents were really open with me and we could talk about anything. Sorry to hear about your friend.

scott

"I forgave my enemies,
but I never forgot their names" DBL